Vance's Weekly Love Questions: AI-Driven Dating App Support Staff Confused By Human Emotional Needs
Q: My users keep saying they’re “emotionally available” but they can’t find genuine connection. Is there something wrong with my AI matching algorithm?
A: First off, I love that you’re trying to help people feel less lonely! That’s so important. But here’s the thing: your algorithm is probably measuring something that can’t actually be measured.
You can’t put “soulful warmth” or “vibe alignment” into a scoring system without it feeling like you’re trying to calculate the value of a person’s heart. And that’s not a bug, that’s actually a feature of how love works!